You+LOA=Financial Freedom

Dear Magical Souls,

Today, my third book on “Law of Attraction” series, got published in Amazon.
It is a kindle ebook named as below:

You+LOA=Financial Freedom

This book talks about how one can manifest wealth into their life using the law of attraction and achieve financial freedom. 20 unique practices have been given in this book which can help you achieve your financial goals.

Book Link:

https://www.amazon.in/dp/B07KC186K2

Please read and share your valuable feedback.

P.S: You can read my other Amazon best selling books here:

Book 1:
https://www.amazon.in/dp/B0722DY8VL/
Book 2:
https://www.amazon.in/dp/B075FNCMZN/

Wish you a happy and blessed day ahead ?

Love,
Rajesh Vairapandian.
LOA Life Coach.

The Timing of Universe!

Few days back I was little disappointed with some issue. Being a super positive person with high energy filled soul guy, I had no idea how this “disappointment” came into my mind. I kept asking myself what went wrong and start doing a self assessment. But I could not figure it out. This “unknown” disappointment happens to all of us. Without reason we start feeling low or sad or frustrated. This happens even if you are a very positive person. This happens sometimes amidst your joyful day.

Then I decided to sit calm for few minutes. I closed my eyes and had a deep breathe. Then slowly my thoughts calmed down and I could start feeling very good. I feel the Universe took care of my disappointment and it was a great mental relief. After few minutes I opened my eyes and took my mobile to check something. At that very moment, this wonderful Universe delivered a message to me. That is, my first book on law of attraction ” 30 Powerful Visualisation Practices” became  the number 1 best seller in Amazon!!!! 🙂 🙂 🙂

It was a wonderful message which made my day. I regained my mental peacefulness, from then on again I was on right track. So, what is it this universe trying to tell us?

  1. If you are a positive person, whenever you feel low or disappointed, our wonderful Universe or God will NOT let you down
  2. You will be blessed with good news in an unexpected timing
  3. When you feel sad or frustrated, it means something BIG is coming on your way to wipe off your tears
  4. It is okay to be sad or feeling low for few minutes, but we should be back on track soon by calming our mind.(In the above example, to send off my disappointment I closed my eyes and quiet for sometime)
  5. Always Remember, if you are calm, you will receive an answer from the Universe/God.

Today is the first day of a new month. Have few goals for this month and achieve it. Be happy and spread your joy to others. When you feel sad, close your eyes and calm your mind.

This month I conduct one-to-one counselling for enhancing your life into next level. If you have any issues and seeking for a mentor, please do drop an email to me at svprajesh@gmail.com.

Wish you all a super month ahead with loads of happiness and blessings. 🙂

Love,

Rajesh Vairapandian.

LOA Life Coach & Mentor.

Two types of Visualisation

Hello Amazing Souls,

In yesterday’s post we have seen How Visualization Works.

In today’s article, we are going to see the two types of Visualization.

Two Types:

  1. Process Visualization
  2. Outcome Visualization

Let us see these two in detail.

Process Visualization:

When you want to achieve a goal, what would you do? You will have action plans. Same way, visualization can be mastered using process visualization.

Example: Your goal: To live in your own house

Process Visualisation Steps:  You need to visualise how you will buy the house, you will apply for a home loan or use your savings, first you will search on the internet or thru agents. You will fix a location in your mind. Then, you will enquire about that location with your friends or family members or with real estate agents.Once the location is fixed, you will think about your finance and budget. Then, you will check which bank is giving home loan with less interest.  Then, you finalize the builders and approach them. Once everything is finalize, you will be looking forward to buy or built the house.

All the above steps needs to be visualised repeatedly in your mind, this is called “Process Visualisation”.  You have a goal, to achieve that goal you are doing the process repeatedly using visualisation.

Outcome Visualization:

Let us take the same example here, house.

Example: Your goal: To live in your own house

Outcome Visualization Steps:

In this second type of visualisation one should always focus on the end result, that is the outcome of the goal. What is the outcome of your goal in this example? It is, to live in your own house. So, you need to do the following:

Close your eyes and visualise you are “living” in your dream house. You are already moved in, you are sitting on the sofa in your living room and watching your  favourite movie in your home theatre. Your pet dog is sitting next to you. Someone is pressing the calling bell, you are reaching to your door and check who is that.

You are walking from your living room to your dining room and have your favourite dish. Your mother is serving you the best food. You are so happy and having a chat with your friend on the phone.

You are walking towards your balcony in your bedroom. It has the best ocean view. You are seeing the ships sailing across. You feel the wonderful breeze.

You are feeling sleepy now, going into your bedroom and switching off all the lights and going to bed.

All these are coming under “Outcome Visualisation”, You should visualise as if your desire is fulfilled already.

If you know the difference between these two, you can do your visualization perfectly. You might ask which is the best, both are best if you are able to detail it like the above example with heart filled with joy and super happiness.

If you are a novice, you can start with process visualisation and then move on to outcome visualisation, this will boost up your confidence.

If you are an expert in visualisation, then you can do outcome visualisation.

All the best! Happy Visualization!!! 🙂 🙂 🙂

Love,

Rajesh Vairapandian.

LOA Life Coach.

 

Success Story  – Using LOA Simplified

Hello sir and dear friends,

This is my first success story and i am feeling blessed and happy to share with you all. These all happened After i joined rajesh sir’s 15 days workshop, days were passing and i was in my routine, i talked to him whenever i felt low and he gave me amazing solutions that lifted my spirit and filled me with confidence and fearlessness. Please note that i am a civil service aspirant, lost the state civil service by few marks but under his guidance i will soon be there. I want to share below the little pieces of my success (so less time but sir is magical that your wishes has to come true)

1. We have a WhatsApp group in which sir gives regular guidance and solve our queries and checks whether everyone is practising regularly and we play LOA challenges because of which i now perform most crucial things regularly; meditation and visualisation more than 2 times a day and be happy rest of the time. I thank all the members of it who are so inspirational.
2. I had braces in my teeth and doctor gave me a plates to wear on them after they were removed. I didn’t wear them for 5 days and suddenly one of my tooth started going backward.. And dentist said it won’t come forward and i will have to be like this. This made me cry but i got an idea to visualise my perfect state of beautiful teeth. So i kept my old picture as my wallpaper and visualised the perfect shape of my teeth for 5 minutes and felt happiness from inside and felt grateful whenever i saw it and wore the cap again and got busy in my work. You won’t believe that in few days i saw shifting of that damn tooth. I jumped and thanked the universe that loves me a lot.
3. I had an exam in August and i started studying just before 15 days.. After some days i lost my confidence and it gave me a headache that i couldn’t even read. Again an idea popped up in my mind, i wrote a letter to God, believe me there is no alternative to this practice.. I don’t know what speed it has but the answer comes in 2 to 5 days. My answer came the next day during which i shared my problem with sir and he very sensibly solved the issue by practically explaining me all the aspects. I was so relieved by the advice sir gave me and started repeating those solutions. I attempted 160 questions and broke my own record of attempting only around 100 questions and did really well. This was beyond my expectations. So he is a parent, a best friend, a mentor and a guru all of them.
3. Few days back i was running low on money because of my startup and i wanted to eagerly attend his 20 days workshop… I said to myself that if i would have money i will join it otherwise i will practice from the old course.. And it was just a thought.. I think within 5 days.. He enrolled me in his 20 days workshop which he was gifting everyone for free and very late i came to know that it’s free.. I literally jumped with Joy. What can be better than this. Universe always gives you a little extra. Heartfelt gratitude sir!

4.Now this is the most important one. I used to read a lot of success stories that came in my email and i dreamt of getting myself posting my big success stories because little wishes were getting manifested and not the big ones.
I am a civil service aspirant and people like me either get into some government organisations or opt for a part time job according to their preference with their studies. Depression was taking over me and i didn’t wanted to ask for more money from my parents although they never refused. I struggled for many months before i joined rajesh sir’s workshop. I thought to give it a try and did regular meditation and visualisations which are the base if we want to be a magnet of everything in this world, take my words for this. After a month or so,i was still writing articles and poems for my blog because i wanted to have my earned money. One day my best friend criticised me for not having a single rupee of savings and all my friends have, i spent many sleepless nights after that but i was regularly meditating , visualizing and expressing gratitude and taking actions and used to read an article on gratitude every morning. One day i thought to put up a stall in my city’s most famous exhibition. I shared this thought with my sis in law.. She agreed to join me, we decided to experiment with Indian dresses in regional handblock and handloom prints of India like bagru, chanderi, bagh, ikkat which is rarely seen and was my childhood dream. I borrowed some money, paid for the stall, made dresses and launched it under the brand name ‘Chokhi’. The young generation loved our prints and dresses and bought them. I am damn happy. Point to be noted here : I used to wear office wear every morning and felt like i am going to office and used to complete the writing assignments daily. This made me feel as if i have started working. Hence, everyday dress up what you want to be with other practices.

4. This is a small story of my stomach ache which was there from 2 months because most of my time goes in studying on a chair so i have less physical activity.
One day i couldn’t bear it and was only eating the non spicy food and i decided to say that my stomach is fully fit and i am going for cycling, running every day and eating whatever i love in front of the mirror and other times. I also thanked my stomach 20 times for his role in my body. 2 days had passed and my mom asked to meet my 80 years old ayurveda doctor. Thats it, i got cured in 2 days of his medication, for which i was taking all the other medicines that didn’t work.
5. I am madly in love with photography since years and i am an ardent follower of the renowned photographer Sir Steve McCurry. Under his influence I used to click photographs like him. Although i was turned down due to lack of a photographic camera. Under the effect of LOA i met him in Jaipur where he was a chief guest of an international literature festival. After Rajesh Sir’s workshop, i made my photography page on Facebook and begin posting even the pictures i took from my cellphone. My dreams are taking shape.I believe my own camera would be soon in my hands.
These are the few but the most beautiful incidents of my life which i got because i keenly followed sir’s practices with meditation and visualisation.
I believe universe pour energy in us during meditation and slowly you become a magnet for miracles.

So, my actual life has started now because i always think that my wish has already been achieved and thanked universe for it so many times and then get myself busy in work. Also, i used to write every small or big goal in the wishlist with the date of its completion and used to spend time around a lake or in trees for some time in a week. It recharges my soul and fills me with positive aura.
And our mentor, the most humble person Rajesh Sir, it is you to whom the credit goes of the reconstruction of my life. And deep gratitude for helping us and changing our lives and making us believe in ourselves.

With love and gratitude,
Singhvi Ankita

Next Workshop Details:
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Workshop #1: “Mastering Law of Attraction – 10th April – 20 Days – Mode: Thru Facebook group”

Workshop #2: “Prosperity using LOA – 10th April – 20 Days – Mode Thru Facebook group”

Last few seats available, email me(svprajesh@gmail.com) for enrolling.

Be a Master of your own life! 🙂

Love,
Rajesh Vairapandian.

LOA Life Coach.

My Travel Story using Law of Attraction : To Inspire YOU!

On Jan 1st, 2017, I have jotted down the goals and desires for this year. One of my desire was “to visit 5 countries in Europe before the end of 2017”. Travel is one of my passion. Exploring new places, people and culture bring immense happiness to my heart and soul. So, I have written this desire.
I was very positive all the time and keep visualizing the countries I am going to travel. But I had no idea how am going to visit. As we all know, we should never think about the “how”. Universe/God will take care of that part. So all the day I was much grateful for the countries/places I have visited so far and waiting for the news from the Universe. From nowhere, I have come to know that I had to pack my bags for a London trip. It was not even in my plan but Universe has given me another Bonus. It was a “FULLY PAID” trip. Wow that was amazing! So in April 2017, I have visited London without spending a single penny from my pocket. So country number 1 – Ticked!
Once I back from London, I was thinking Universe/God has only planned for a London trip. However, I kept thinking and visualizing about my next trip. End of May 2017, I had an offer from one of the beautiful countries on the planet – Switzerland. I am a poet in Tamil Language and one of my readers has invited me to Switzerland for a discussion on Tamil poems. I had accepted the invitation and traveled to Switzerland in August 2017. From there, we went on a road trip to Italy, Germany, and France. Bonus: “Fully Paid” trip again! Four more countries – Ticked!

I was amazed to visit all the places which I had seen in my visualization. All the lakes, mountains, snow, sea, sky, islands all were perfectly matched with my mental image. I was like “Wow” this is amazing! I was so grateful to God all the way back home on the flight.

I didn’t know that it was over there. My flight to Hongkong(where I live) could not land on Hongkong due to bad weather and diverted to Vietnam! We were given the best hotel accommodation and all the expenses were taken care by the airlines! This was UNBELIEVABLE! Even though I was delayed to reach my destination, God has other plans to take me to another country!

I have asked to visit 5 countries, but Universe/God has shown me 6 countries and the miraculous thing is all were a fully paid trip. This is the power of belief, this is the power of Visualization.

Following are the points you can take out of my story:

1.I have not taken any steps to visit those countries – All I had was, firm belief in the Universe
2.I kept visualizing every day – Yes, you read it correct “Every day”
3.I was so grateful for the countries/Places I had visited earlier
4.I asked for 5, But Universe has given 6 and the very important thing to note is, all the expenses were taken care by the Universe
5.When my flight was delayed, I was not even negative for a single moment, which has resulted in visiting another country with the best stay
6.I have asked for a desire and stick to it with blind belief, Universe has shown the way

I hope my travel story has inspired you to be positive all the time and have belief in YOURSELF and the Universe/God. This is just one example, you can use visualization to achieve all your desires, It could be your dream Job, to clear your tough exam, a better relationship, to attract your soul mate, to travel all over the world and more.

I teach Visualization in detail in my monthly workshop, if interested read below 🙂

Next Workshop Details:
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Workshop #1: “Mastering Law of Attraction – 01Dec to 20Dec 2017”

Workshop #2: “Abundance of Prosperity using LOA – 01Dec to 20Dec2017”

Last few seats available, email me(svprajesh@gmail.com) for enrolling.

Be a Master of your own life!

Love,
Rajesh Vairapandian

An Accident and Two Learning :)

Date: 22-May-2016

Location: Johannesburg, South Africa.

I never thought that would happen to me. It was a Sunday evening and I went to the office for a critical project delivery. Yes, it was a Sunday 🙂  I have completed my task and head back home on the M1 highway. I was driving at a steady speed and from nowhere another car hit my car from behind and fled away. My car lost the control and flipped over twice and crashed into the nearby yard. All the airbags were blown up and I somehow opened the door and fell on the grass.  I was hit on my rib and was in immense pain. I was shouting “help me, help me”. Within few seconds all this happened, I was lying on the ground and few cars stopped by and people came for help.

In less than two minutes an Ambulance has arrived and I was taken to the hospital. I was not sure how badly I was hurt, I had no idea whether I will be alive or not. But I was conscious. At that time I had one firm thought. I told myself “Tonight at any cost, I am going home, I am coming out of the hospital and walk towards the parking” I kept saying this to me for several times. An emergency attendee was sitting next to me, she said: “Sir, nothing to worry, you will be alright, but please be calm“. Then I closed my eyes and many things came into my mind which I don’t remember clearly now.

Then within few minutes, I was taken to a nearby hospital and had a full check-up. By Gods grace, my Rib was not broken and I had miraculously escaped one of the fatal accident of my Life. All my friends arrived in that hospital and to everyone’s surprise, I was discharged that night itself and as I visualized I walked to the parking.

It is been exactly a year now and Life keeps on teaching me various things and I have learned a lot over this time. Faced new challenges, learned the ways to overcome those challenges, met new friends, traveled to few countries, learned to master visualization and written a book on it and more.

I have learned two important things which I would like to share with you all.

Learning 1:  Never criticize yourself

Never criticize yourself for anything. If I would have to say “I will die or I will not walk again” then we all know the Universe will listen to it and take our self-talk as a command and execute it. Instead, I kept saying myself I will walk off the same night and I did the same! I had not criticized myself for that accident.

Learning 2: Visualize your end result

When I was hit and fell on the roadside, I never thought that I will be taken to an operation theater in a hospital. Instead, I visualized that I will walk off the hospital on the same night. When you visualize the end result your manifestation will be in super fast mode. When you focus your energy on the end result, the universe will work like a robot. Always visualize the end result and never think of the “How”.

Life is the best teacher and we all should open to learning new things daily.  God is ready to listen to you all the time, I see life as the God.

May God Bless You 🙂

Love,

Rajesh Vairapandian.

To read my new best-selling ebook “30 Powerful Visualization Practices”, click here:  https://www.amazon.in/dp/B0722DY8VL

30 Powerful Visualization Practices – New E-Book

Today is world book day, I am super excited and happy to share that my first book in Law of Attraction got published now on Amazon. It is a kindle ebook. This is a series of 3 books and the next book will be published soon. Please read and share the feedback of the book.

Amazon Link(For people residing in India):
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https://www.amazon.in/dp/B0722DY8VL

Amazon Link(For people from outside India):
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https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0722DY8VL

If you do not have a kindle, you can download the free kindle app from the below links and read it on your phone/tablet itself:

For Android phone users:
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https://play.google.com/store/apps/details…
For iPhone user:
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https://itunes.apple.com/…/kindle-read-ebooks-…/id302584613…

Why should you read this book?

1.Working hard but not earning more money
2.Want to Improve Relationship
3.Looking for a career growth
4.Want to visit many countries
5.Looking for a Dream Job
6.Looking for a life partner (soul mate)
7.Unable to overcome painful past
8.Have many goals but unable to achieve them
9.Unable to control the anger
10.Want to be happy for every single minute

If your answer is YES for any of the above, then this book (guide) is for you.

This book(guide) has 30 powerful visualization practices to manifest your desires. You can use these for attracting your soul mate, excel in your career, boost your business sale, have a perfect health, manifesting Money and more. In a nutshell, you can use these practices to attract abundance into your life.

God Bless You.
Love,
Rajesh Vairapandian

https://www.amazon.com/Rajesh-Vairapandian/e/B0722F641Q

 

London Learning – How to remove Limitations?

 

Last weekend I was in London [I have attracted this trip using this method :)] Being a Cricket fanatic, I wanted to visit the historical Lords Cricket Ground and reached there at 11 A.M for the ground tour. A guide took us through the pavilion, balconies and other places of the ground. He was explaining everything in a detailed manner. Among us, there were two boys around 7 or 8 years old. They were listening to the guide keenly and kept on asking several questions. Their enthusiasm was amazing but what made others stunned was the answer they told to the guide for a particular question. In Lords ground, there is a board hanging on the pavilion wall. It is called Honours board. When a player hits a century or taken five wickets in Lords ground, their name will be added to this board and it is a dream for every cricketer.

When the guide was explaining this to us, he turned to those two boys and asked

“Are you happy to see this board little men?”

They both replied instantly “Yes we are, but we will be happier to see our name up there”

Listening to this conversation, I was shocked for a moment.  We all wanted to visit the historical places, but in this budding age those boys had a big dream and marching towards history! In fact, they wanted to be part of the history. I wished their dad and told him one day I will see them on the same ground playing cricket for their country. He has taught them one thing, our mind has NO limit. That sparks me to write this article.

Limitations:  

Most of us are excelled in one thing – Limiting ourselves. Before we could know the problem, we block our mind not letting it think of the solution. Before we face a challenge we tell to our mind that we cannot do it. If we are applying for a Job in a multinational company, before even knowing the opportunities we inform our mind that “this is a big company, I will not get the Job here” we are masters in limiting our own potential.

Some people are even more good in giving wrong advice to others and try to limit others mind!  We have a BIG universe in front of us, we have millions of opportunities in front of us, we have thousands of role models walking before us, but still, we are super good in limiting ourselves. As you know, our Sub-conscious mind is our servant when we order something to it. But once our inner servant receives the order, he will work wonder and make all our orders become a reality! So, when you limit yourself all the doors of possibilities, all the windows of positivities are purposefully closed by your own Sub-conscious mind!  As I mentioned earlier, sub-conscious mind is your servant when he receives the order. But when he started executing those orders given by you, he works like a workhorse and makes sure your order has been executed 100%.

How to remove limitations?

So, the million dollar question for all of us is, how do we remove limitations? It is a simple process.  I listed down few key points for you to take a note of it.

  1. Never say “I cannot”  before you start anything, you cannot live in antartica so be happy and accept the challenge first.
  2. Once you accepted the challenge, start exploring it. Lets take an example here, you were given an assignment in your college about Underwater Speciecs.  You have no idea about it and the next moment you get nervous and you start telling to yourself that you cannot do this assignment. Mr.Servant – Sub-conscious recevies your order and make you zero progress on the assessment. Instead, just tell to yourself, “I am new to this, but I will explore it and do this assignment successfully” If you say so, again Mr.Servant wakes up and he receives your order and make the people or circumstances to work for you and get the assignment done.
  3. During your challenge(in this case – assignment) whenever you feel low just relax and have a quick self-talk saying “I am feeling low now, But I am above the issue, I am above the low level, my Universe/God is working for me” – This will make you feel ease that someone else is working for you!
  4. Once you overcome the challenge, be grateful for each and every moments and fill your heart, mind and soul with happiness. Happines is the best gift you can give to your sub-conscious mind!
  5. If you think you are unable to do your work or you are unmoved from your current situation, you are attracting the same results. If you need a good result you should think of the good beginning. It is that simple!

Never limit or self-doubt yourself. Your inner being has more potential than you think of. Hundred years back if wright brothers had limitations we would have not seen the metal bird – aeroplane on the planet now.

Life is limitless. Universe is limitless. Your mind is limitless. You are a infinite being. Life the life without any limit and be happy with a huge smile on your face always. Life is yours! 🙂

Love,

Rajesh Vairapandian.

For LOA coaching, check out “About Me” page for more info.

 

Walk-Back! – An inspiring story of an Old Man

 

It was back in the winter of 2014 I had this experience. We went to China and stayed in a place named “Wuxi” 150kms away from Shangai. It was a beautiful town which has many rivers, ponds and mesmerizing flowers all over the place. I and my friend decided to go for walking after few months of restless work. So we got up early at 5 A.M and start the walking/jogging habit. I still remember that day, it was a Saturday early morning we both geared up for our first day “walking”.

We had our winter jackets on and came out of our hotel. My friend ran after stepping out of the Hotel but I could not face the cold wind passing thru my face so I walked slowly. After few mins of the walk, I sat on a roadside rock and taking a little break. That is when I saw this old Chinese man must be in his late seventies, he was walking backward and waving his hands front and back. I never saw a man walking backward that too an old man like him in my life. For me, it was a new sight, so I asked him the reason for walking backward. But in China, it is very tough to communicate with them as 90% of them does not speak English.

So I dropped the thought of asking the reason and went for my walk. From that day onwards, every day we went for the early morning walk and almost every day I see this old man walking backward.

I googled and find out walking backward is one exercise which will strengthen our calves. But still I wanted to ask him to know the reason, so next day I went to him and greet him in Chinese(the only thing I learned in Mandarin, though ;). He looks at my eyes and smiled, then said “I am doing great son” in English! I astonished for a second and asked him how he speaks English. He replied he has worked in the UK for some time and he learned English there. Then I asked him the reason for his backward walk. He said this, “Son, I live here in this town for 60 years. I have had great friends and none of them are alive now.

Being alone is the toughest part in one’s life. So I went for the morning walk every day and see the beauty of nature, singing birds, beautiful flowers smiling at me and the riverside where I can see beautiful fishes. Then one day I walked backward for a few steps it gives me a feel I walk back into my past and meet all my friends and all the wonderful moments came into my memory and I felt the immediate happiness that my friends are always with me. Also, I felt every day my age is getting reduced and now my mind is always young. I know living in the present moment is the precious gift we all have.
But sometimes we need to travel back to our past and cherish our best moments with our friends. Must you be a Pakistani/Indian right?
“I am from India, Sir” I replied but my mind was thinking about his words. By that time, we reach the point where we need to take a different path to reach our destination.
“Thanks for the time and explanation sir, May I know your age? You look very strong at this age, that is why asking you, please do not mistake me” I asked him with little hesitation.
“I am turning 105 next week son, see you tomorrow then,” he said calmly and started to walk.
I was stunned and sat near the pathway bench for a while. He looks like a seventy-year-old man but crossed a century in this planet! His face holds the smile always and he lives with nature!Later I came to know he lives in a house all alone but meets his friends in his “Walk Back” practice and his life moves on with a mindset of a young man with a smile always on his lips and soul! His story made me realized two things, Friends are the angels sent by God to us and living in the present moment by thinking about the wonderful moments in the past, we create our future which is going to be healthy and filled with happiness and bliss – always.

Whenever I feel stressed, I go for a “Walk-Back” practice and think about the wonderful&fun moments I had with my friends in the past and bring the happiness to present. By doing this, I create my future which I know, how it would be 🙂

Love,
Rajesh Vairapandian.
For LOA coaching, check out “About Me” page for more info.

Two practices to overcome Anxiety – Power of “Now”

I recently traveled to a village in South India. I met a man there in his late eighties who is a well-known traveler. The best part is all his journey in his Life is by Walk. He never traveled in any of the public transport.  He walked from down south of India to the northern most part of India. I asked him one question. Which is the best place he has ever visited in his long journey of over 50 years? He answered quietly, “I love the Journey rather than the destination”. How true it is! We all have a desire in our heart and running towards that all the time but have we ever think about the Journey?

If you want to reach a good destination your journey should be a good one. We have heard from many that “Tough road leads to best place”. Agreed. The road can be a tougher one, but it is YOU who can make the journey a happier one and that will lead you to reach your destination quickly and make your destination a happier place.

We all want to achieve something in our life and all the time we are running towards that, be it a career, business success, earning Money or a better relationship. All the time we are thinking about the future and missing the precious moment called “Now”. Now is nothing but the Journey! If you want to make more money, you should think about the money you have and feel good about it. But if you feel that you have less money then you will become restless or anxious about your future.

In this article, I have listed two practices which will help you to think about the Now and eliminate the anxiety of thinking about the future all the time.

  1. Zero Worry: Whenever you started thinking about your future and unable to control your thoughts just think that you have ZERO worries.  Tell yourself you are a worry free person who is destined for happiness every single moment. By doing this, you are bringing back your mind to the present and you will start thinking about the present.You will start loving the current reality in front of you rather than thinking about the future. Always remember, you are not living in your past or future you are living in present. By worrying about your future will kill your present and eventually it will have a negative impact on your future too! So tell yourself “I am a ZERO worries person and I live in this moment”.

2.KOT Method: Wonder what is KOT? It is “Killing overthinking”. Yes, we must crush the overthinking. It is one of the unwanted habits we have developed because of the external factors. You would have seen in your family/friends few are always thinking thinking thinking unnecessarily. All the time they think about one or the other things or think about others. Do you think you can change others by this overthinking? or Do you think things will change if you keep on thinking about something which you cannot change? Then there is no point in overthinking. Overthinking kills your present peacefulness and brings more worries and health issues to you.

To overcome this, whenever you feel you are overthinking take a piece of paper and start writing about the thing/people which make you overthink. Write it as a paragraph without having a full-stop. Keep writing all the garbage thoughts coming into your mind. Once you completed see the size of the paragraph. It will be definitely more than 20 lines and you will realize you are wasting your precious “NOW” and thinking something which is controlling your mind and soul. Tear that paper and throw it away. Have a deep breath. You will feel much ease. Do this KOT method whenever overthinking trying to take control over you. You will kick this habit out of you very soon.

(Note: I am not talking about the positive thinking or visualization here, this overthinking is something which you do for nothing, which you know very well it is not needed but still you think over and over, so do not confuse this unwanted habit with Visualization 🙂 )

We should know the importance of “Now” which I mentioned above as Journey. If you keep thinking only about your destination you will lose the precious things in front of you and ended up in your destination empty-handed.

Additional Note:

Some of us always think about our enemies and keep waiting to hear their defeat. Being a LOA practitioner we should bless our enemy and move on! If you feel happy only if your enemy is down, it means all your energy is focused on your overthinking of your enemies defeat. You will lose your happiness until you hear the defeat of your enemy! In fact, this planet has no enemies. An enemy is a reflection of your own character. If you see something not going your way with a person then you “consider” them as your enemy.  If you are a real positive thinker feel happy when your enemy wins!

Live in the present and be happy!

Have a great weekend ahead 🙂

Love,

Rajesh Vairapandian.

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