I was rushing to the central railway station in Chennai to board TamilNadu Express. It was a rainy day in November and all the traffic was a standstill. Somehow I sneaked through the traffic and reached the railway station and got on the train. I had a 3rd A/C ticket and find out my sleeper. Within few minutes train started moving and then I saw a family sitting in front of me. A two-year old little girl having an apple. I was amazed to see her Mother; it wasPooja!!. She has not noticed me, busy in feeding the apple to her kid. My memories pulled me back to my college days.
Pooja was my class mate. We both were good friends and she was the dream girl for many in our college. Most of the other department guys made me as their friend only to talk to Pooja! Her eyes are in green color and we used to call her as “Green eyed angel”. She herself an angel, very kind hearted, brave girl volunteered herself first for all the charity works, great dancer, drama play artist and more. I used to think how she is always happy.
All her happiness gone when she fell in love with a guy. Initially, they were great but the days passed by they had a break up which made Pooja fall in depression. One bad morning we came to know she tried to commit suicide. We rushed to the hospital and what we saw was an angel with broken wings, she was like a crushed flower lying on a road side. We came back to our college with heavyhearted and that was the last day we have seen this angel. Her father did not allow her to continue the education and the angel has flown back to New Delhi.
Someone brought me to the reality and it was Pooja. She is so happy now and after our initial conversation, I asked her what happened after she left Chennai. She said she has locked herself in a room for several days and then one day decided to forget the past and live the life she always wanted to. Pooja has a soul mate life partner and she owns a dance school and teaches dance as it was her passion always. She stared explaining to me how the visualization process changed her life. Here it is:
1. If you had a breakup or divorced or just came out of an ill-fated relationship stop thinking about that over and over, Remember you are not living in your past.
2. Do not think the two worst words in English vocabulary ever in your life “Why me?”
3. Always hug yourself in the morning – the most important person in this world is YOU.
4. If you happen to think about your ex-guy/girl – do not curse them. Instead, bless them.
5. Read a self-development book when you feel low or watch some YouTube videos which will boost your energy instantly, being happy for nothing will make wonders.
Finding a Life Partner – Visualization Steps:
Visualize that you are going to attract the perfect partner of your life within a month(have a timeline). Have a mental picture of him/her how he/she looks like. Do not compare your life partner with a movie star. Be realistic, he/she should be kind at heart, supports you, understands you and be with you forever. Have a mental image and keep visualizing you are going to attract him/her very soon.
We can take an example here that you are working in an Information Technology company. You want to find the guy who is also working in this company.
You are entering into the large campus in your bike crossing the trees and flowers on either side of your road. You park your bike and thinking about your life partner.
You are walking towards your tower. It is a campus of more than ten towers. You need to walk for at least 10 mins to reach your workplace. You are enjoying the warm weather and walking slowly. Fresh breeze embraces you and you are feeling so light. You feel today you are going to meet your life partner.
You reached your workstation and started checking your emails. Suddenly you got an intuition you wanted to turn back. You are sitting in a room which has 300 desktops. It is a very large hall. You turned back and seeing one guy coming towards your direction. As he comes closer you got a divine feeling in your heart and he was the guy you were looking for! There were other men walking around but your eyes are looking at him only. He is the perfect partner you have been visualized! He is the one created by God only for You!!! You ducks in immediately on your seat. Your heart is pumping and you cannot control your excitement! Takes out your mobile and text your best friend saying you have found your man!
You are going to Cafeteria and waiting for your best friend. She comes there and you hug her in super excitement and say “I have seen my dream boy!!” She wished you and asks for a treat and both of you having fun and started eating the ice-cream.
<< Repeat the above six steps in your visualization for few weeks >>
Now that you met your guy at office and one of your team mates introduce you with him. You both exchanged your mobile/watsapp number. You feel so good whenever you chats with him.
Now, you both are known each other very well and spent some valuable time together. One day early morning you get a message from him and he says he wanted to tell you something very important. You know what it is and you dress up well had a decent make-up and going to meet him in Café coffee day.
He ordered the coffee and he appreciated your great outlook and kept calm for few minutes. Then he takes out the flower bouquet and says he is in love with you and he wants to marry you. Your heart becomes a butterfly and you feel you are an angel now. Some birds are singing in your ears and you are the happiest person on the planet at that moment.
You accepted (attracted indeed 😉 ) him and introduced him to your parents. They like him very much and your father asks him about his parents. All went well and you all have a dinner together in your favorite restaurant(fill this place with your favorite restaurant name)
Within few days, your marriage has been fixed and both of you planning for your wedding venue/dress and choosing the honeymoon location. He wants to go to Goa and you wants to go to Kerala to visit Boathouse. Ofcourse, you win and he says okay for Kerala! : )
<<Customize the above practice steps based on your wish, your desired place, your traditional way of family get-together etc>>
Pooja told me all these and she said her husband was very supportive to achieve her dream – to open a dance class. She owns a dance class in Moti Bagh, New Delhi now. I could feel the happiness on those green eyes after several years. She is the happiest soul on the planet now. Train is speeding up into the darkness but not the life of Pooja. You can create your own life anytime. You are the Pooja. Spread happiness and be happy always!
I could feel the happiness on those green eyes after several years. She is the happiest soul on the planet now. The train is speeding up into the darkness but not the life of Pooja. You can create your own life anytime. You are the Pooja. Spread happiness and be happy always!
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