Walk-Back! – An inspiring story of an Old Man

 

It was back in the winter of 2014 I had this experience. We went to China and stayed in a place named “Wuxi” 150kms away from Shangai. It was a beautiful town which has many rivers, ponds and mesmerizing flowers all over the place. I and my friend decided to go for walking after few months of restless work. So we got up early at 5 A.M and start the walking/jogging habit. I still remember that day, it was a Saturday early morning we both geared up for our first day “walking”.

We had our winter jackets on and came out of our hotel. My friend ran after stepping out of the Hotel but I could not face the cold wind passing thru my face so I walked slowly. After few mins of the walk, I sat on a roadside rock and taking a little break. That is when I saw this old Chinese man must be in his late seventies, he was walking backward and waving his hands front and back. I never saw a man walking backward that too an old man like him in my life. For me, it was a new sight, so I asked him the reason for walking backward. But in China, it is very tough to communicate with them as 90% of them does not speak English.

So I dropped the thought of asking the reason and went for my walk. From that day onwards, every day we went for the early morning walk and almost every day I see this old man walking backward.

I googled and find out walking backward is one exercise which will strengthen our calves. But still I wanted to ask him to know the reason, so next day I went to him and greet him in Chinese(the only thing I learned in Mandarin, though ;). He looks at my eyes and smiled, then said “I am doing great son” in English! I astonished for a second and asked him how he speaks English. He replied he has worked in the UK for some time and he learned English there. Then I asked him the reason for his backward walk. He said this, “Son, I live here in this town for 60 years. I have had great friends and none of them are alive now.

Being alone is the toughest part in one’s life. So I went for the morning walk every day and see the beauty of nature, singing birds, beautiful flowers smiling at me and the riverside where I can see beautiful fishes. Then one day I walked backward for a few steps it gives me a feel I walk back into my past and meet all my friends and all the wonderful moments came into my memory and I felt the immediate happiness that my friends are always with me. Also, I felt every day my age is getting reduced and now my mind is always young. I know living in the present moment is the precious gift we all have.
But sometimes we need to travel back to our past and cherish our best moments with our friends. Must you be a Pakistani/Indian right?
“I am from India, Sir” I replied but my mind was thinking about his words. By that time, we reach the point where we need to take a different path to reach our destination.
“Thanks for the time and explanation sir, May I know your age? You look very strong at this age, that is why asking you, please do not mistake me” I asked him with little hesitation.
“I am turning 105 next week son, see you tomorrow then,” he said calmly and started to walk.
I was stunned and sat near the pathway bench for a while. He looks like a seventy-year-old man but crossed a century in this planet! His face holds the smile always and he lives with nature!Later I came to know he lives in a house all alone but meets his friends in his “Walk Back” practice and his life moves on with a mindset of a young man with a smile always on his lips and soul! His story made me realized two things, Friends are the angels sent by God to us and living in the present moment by thinking about the wonderful moments in the past, we create our future which is going to be healthy and filled with happiness and bliss – always.

Whenever I feel stressed, I go for a “Walk-Back” practice and think about the wonderful&fun moments I had with my friends in the past and bring the happiness to present. By doing this, I create my future which I know, how it would be 🙂

Love,
Rajesh Vairapandian.
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A story of a green eyed angel – How to attract Life Partner using Visualization 

 

I was rushing to the central railway station in Chennai to board TamilNadu Express. It was a rainy day in November and all the traffic was a standstill. Somehow I sneaked through the traffic and reached the railway station and got on the train. I had a 3rd A/C ticket and find out my sleeper. Within few minutes train started moving and then I saw a family sitting in front of me.  A two-year old little girl having an apple. I was amazed to see her Mother; it wasPooja!!. She has not noticed me, busy in feeding the apple to her kid. My memories pulled me back to my college days.

Pooja was my class mate. We both were good friends and she was the dream girl for many in our college. Most of the other department guys made me as their friend only to talk to Pooja! Her eyes are in green color and we used to call her as “Green eyed angel”. She herself an angel, very kind hearted, brave girl volunteered herself first for all the charity works, great dancer, drama play artist and more. I used to think how she is always happy.

All her happiness gone when she fell in love with a guy. Initially, they were great but the days passed by they had a break up which made Pooja fall in depression. One bad morning we came to know she tried to commit suicide. We rushed to the hospital and what we saw was an angel with broken wings, she was like a crushed flower lying on a road side. We came back to our college with heavyhearted and that was the last day we have seen this angel. Her father did not allow her to continue the education and the angel has flown back to New Delhi.

Someone brought me to the reality and it was Pooja. She is so happy now and after our initial conversation, I asked her what happened after she left Chennai.  She said she has locked herself in a room for several days and then one day decided to forget the past and live the life she always wanted to. Pooja has a soul mate life partner and she owns a dance school and teaches dance as it was her passion always.  She stared explaining to me how the visualization process changed her life. Here it is:

Pre-Visualization Steps:

1.    If you had a breakup or divorced or just came out of an ill-fated relationship stop thinking about that over and over, Remember you are not living in your past.

2.    Do not think the two worst words in English vocabulary ever in your life “Why me?”

3.    Always hug yourself in the morning – the most important person in this world is YOU.

4.       If you happen to think about your ex-guy/girl – do not curse them. Instead, bless them.

5.       Read a self-development book when you feel low or watch some YouTube videos which will boost your energy instantly, being happy for nothing will make wonders.

 Finding a Life Partner – Visualization Steps:

Step 1:

Visualize that you are going to attract the perfect partner of your life within a month(have a timeline). Have a mental picture of him/her how he/she looks like. Do not compare your life partner with a movie star. Be realistic, he/she should be kind at heart, supports you, understands you and be with you forever. Have a mental image and keep visualizing you are going to attract him/her very soon.

Step2:

We can take an example here that you are working in an Information Technology company. You want to find the guy who is also working in this company.

Step 3:

You are entering into the large campus in your bike crossing the trees and flowers on either side of your road. You park your bike and thinking about your life partner.

Step 4:

You are walking towards your tower. It is a campus of more than ten towers. You need to walk for at least 10 mins to reach your workplace. You are enjoying the warm weather and walking slowly.  Fresh breeze embraces you and you are feeling so light. You feel today you are going to meet your life partner.

Step 5:

You reached your workstation and started checking your emails.  Suddenly you got an intuition you wanted to turn back. You are sitting in a room which has 300 desktops. It is a very large hall. You turned back and seeing one guy coming towards your direction. As he comes closer you got a divine feeling in your heart and he was the guy you were looking for!  There were other men walking around but your eyes are looking at him only. He is the perfect partner you have been visualized! He is the one created by God only for You!!! You ducks in immediately on your seat. Your heart is pumping and you cannot control your excitement! Takes out your mobile and text your best friend saying you have found your man!

Step 6:

You are going to Cafeteria and waiting for your best friend. She comes there and you hug her in super excitement and say “I have seen my dream boy!!”  She wished you and asks for a treat and both of you having fun and started eating the ice-cream.

<< Repeat the above six steps in your visualization for few weeks >>

Step 7:

Now that you met your guy at office and one of your team mates introduce you with him. You both exchanged your mobile/watsapp number. You feel so good whenever you chats with him.

Step 8:

Now, you both are known each other very well and spent some valuable time together. One day early morning you get a message from him and he says he wanted to tell you something very important. You know what it is and you dress up well had a decent make-up and going to meet him in Café coffee day.

Step 9:

He ordered the coffee and he appreciated your great outlook and kept calm for few minutes. Then he takes out the flower bouquet and says he is in love with you and he wants to marry you. Your heart becomes a butterfly and you feel you are an angel now. Some birds are singing in your ears and you are the happiest person on the planet at that moment.

Step 10:

You accepted (attracted indeed 😉 ) him and introduced him to your parents. They like him very much and your father asks him about his parents. All went well and you all have a dinner together in your favorite restaurant(fill this place with your favorite restaurant name)

Step 11:

Within few days, your marriage has been fixed and both of you planning for your wedding venue/dress and choosing the honeymoon location. He wants to go to Goa and you wants to go to Kerala to visit Boathouse. Ofcourse, you win and he says okay for Kerala! : )

<<Customize the above practice steps based on your wish, your desired place, your traditional way of family get-together etc>>

Pooja told me all these and she said her husband was very supportive to achieve her dream – to open a dance class. She owns a dance class in Moti Bagh, New Delhi now.  I could feel the happiness on those green eyes after several years. She is the happiest soul on the planet now. Train is speeding up into the darkness but not the life of Pooja. You can create your own life anytime. You are the Pooja. Spread happiness and be happy always!

I could feel the happiness on those green eyes after several years. She is the happiest soul on the planet now. The train is speeding up into the darkness but not the life of Pooja. You can create your own life anytime. You are the Pooja. Spread happiness and be happy always!

 

Love,

Rajesh Vairpandian.

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The Game of Money – Money Attraction Tips – Part:1

Art Credit: Komal Gandhi

Quick Little Story 🙂

When the match referee Clive Lloyd announced that Srilanka has won the match against India in the world cup semifinal match back in 1996, Vinod Kambli was the not out batsman who was on the crease, cried like a kid and ran towards the pavilion. Entire Indian cricket fans were crying and stunned to watch that heartbreaking scene. We were sitting on the terrace of our Uncle’s house in the village we lived and we all were in tears. One of our friends, Kirsh was the only guy has not watched that match and busy reading something. I went to him and asked him what is the book he read which is more important than Cricket. He said, “Think and Grow Rich” a book about Money. I never thought he would read a book in English and years passed by I left my village to city in pursuit of my higher studies. He failed in his tenth standard and discontinued his studies.

Fifteen years later, I met him at a marriage function and we were talking about our school days. He asked me one question “Have you achieved what you want in life?” I was not having an immediate answer but I said: “I think I have achieved at least a half”. He smiled and I asked him the same question, his response made me raised my eyebrows. He replied immediately “Yes, I am the only millionaire in my town”.  I was astonished by that answer. He failed in the tenth standard. He was not a brilliant chap, but how he became a millionaire? My curiosity level raised and he understood the questions arise in my mind. “I became a millionaire last year, but I knew I am going to be the first millionaire when I was 16 years old”.

He went on to explain how badly he wanted to earn more money and he grows with that one thought all the time. He had set himself one goal and every day he grows into that one single goal. To make more money. To become a millionaire. He joined as a salesman in a mobile shop in the nearby town and learned in and out of the mobile business. Then he loaned some money and opened a mobile shop in his small town. It was during that time mobile market skyrocketed in India and he played the game wisely and now he owns four mobile shops and he is a proud first millionaire of his town.

In this case, he had one vision. He wanted to become a millionaire. He planted the money tree into his sub-conscious in a very early age and it has grown along with him. Hence, he has become a millionaire.

We all want to make money. We practice various money attracting practices but few are attracting the money they want. Others stop doing the practice or lost interest or work hard to earn the same peanuts which they were earning before the law of attraction practice.

In this article, I have listed few important money attracting practices which will help you to attract the money in a quicker time. Before getting into the practices, please eliminate the following thoughts if in case you still have in your mind.[Remember, being a Law of Attraction Practitioner, you are a Money Magnet – all the time]

“Money is evil”,  “Money only comes from hard work” – All these kind of your predefined thought(mindset) should be removed and now you are going to approach the practices with an open mindset.

1. Wallet Treasure:  Do you carry a wallet or handbag with you? If yes, always have few higher denomination notes. Example: Have a few five hundreds or thousand rupees notes. Do not spend this money for any of your expenses. Just have these all the time in your wallet and whenever you see it or touch it feel that you are the richest person in the world. Feel it from your heart. Name this money as magic money and never use it. Your magic money is for you to feel and attract more abundance into your life. It is a treasure you have found. It is a sign that Universe/God will provide you more money. It is an indicator that you are on the right path to reach the destination where you will have plenty of Money.

2. Small is Big: We always give our focus to the higher denomination notes.However, coins play the important role in attracting money. Recently, when I was cleaning up my couch I found a two dollar coin. I felt so happy and I started to be grateful for finding that. I thanked God several times and I felt like I have found a hidden treasure.  Later that day I checked my bank account and to my surprise, I have received 500 rupees from a direct cash deposit. I could not find out who has done that and a few days later my friend messaged me that he has deposited that money (which I have given months ago) and forgot to inform me. I believed the power of Universe/God that day, as we know God has no difference between 1 dollar or a million dollar, it is our belief system we had instilled that one is small and a million is huge. So appreciate and be grateful if you find coins in your room or garden.

3. Target Date:  Have a target date to attract the amount of Money. Start with a low amount first once you achieve it, your subconscious mind will start believing it and gradually you can increase the amount.

Example:  100$ in 30 days. Then double it once you attracted your first 100.

4. Money Groups:  There are plenty of groups in facebook for money. Subscribe and keep an eye every day what others talk/share about money. This will make your mind in focus on money-related things for most of the time. You have decided to make more money so it will be good if you are in a like-minded group.

5. Visualization: This is the base for all the above practices. Do visualization only for attracting money every day. Example: Every day early morning for the next 30 days you are going to do visualization only for attracting the Money. You feel great that you have filled with money and money comes to you easily. You are spending that money for all the good things you wanted to do. You spend that money for charity or spending that money for buying a house for your mom all those desires should keep running in your mind.

Back in 2009, I wanted to buy a Car and I did not have a single rupee in my hand. But I knew one thing, I am going to buy a red color car in 2010 and I will be traveling in that car to my office, I will meet my friends, I will go to my hometown in that Car. I have done visualization in this way and attracted the car. God/Universe has arranged the circumstances and the car had reached me in July 2010.  The Car is another form of Money. So, be crystal clear on how much of money you need and when you need and for what you need that money. You will attract it for sure.

I hope these practices will be helpful for you, I will share few more tips tomorrow in Part 2, how to segregate weekly/monthly/yearly money receiving ways.

Have a great day Money Magnets 🙂

Love,

Rajesh Vairapandian.

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Power of Fingers

 

Life is the best teacher. Life teaches you the correct lesson when you are in need. This happened back in 2007 when I visited my first onsite. The dreamland for all IT-ians, United States of America. I boarded the British Airways flight from Chennai to London and took another flight from London to Chicago. I landed in Chicago and had to catch a domestic flight to Seattle. Transit time was very less, so I had to run from the international terminal to domestic terminal. These two terminals are connected with an internal shuttle train. I got into the train and by the time I reached the domestic terminal I knew I was late. I rushed to the counter and I was greeted by a blue-eyed American woman before I could speak up, she told me “Sorry sir, You missed the flight by 2 mins, here is your next flight ticket to Seattle which is at 8.30 A.M tomorrow morning”. This was the first time I had missed a flight and I was restless. I had to reach Seattle that night and by next morning I had a client meeting. If I go by the next day morning flight I would reach office post lunch only. I pleaded with her, if there was any other way to go early? She replied with a firm No. All the nearby hotels were booked so I had to spend my whole night in the airport.

I was feeling a little low and sat on a seat. It was a new experience for me. New country, new situation. Few others were sitting next to me and among them, I saw one Mexican, who resembled a cowboy of old English movies with a flat round hat. He stared at me and came to sit next to me.

“I guess you too have missed the flight, Isn’t” – He asked me before even saying a hello.

‘’Yes”

“I too missed the same flight” – He said with a wry smile on his face.

“oh, where are u going to stay tonight? – I asked him, knowing the answer.

“I tried the nearby hotels all were booked and few are very expensive so decided to spend the night out in airport” he looked tired and words were coming out mildly. Then I started reading a novel. After few mins, I saw him seeing his right-hand palm and fingers. He was staring at his palm for a long time.

“Sir, May I know what you are doing?” – I asked him with much inquisitiveness.

He turned to me and started telling this “Power of Fingers”
What would you do when you are feeling low? What would be your immediate reaction when something goes wrong at your work? Usually, whenever we are down or feeling low either we look for a mood change or we dwell on the low mood for some time. If you want to change the mood or raise above the issue, there is a simple way to do it, which I have been doing for years. And it is very effective too. All you need to do is to look at your right hand and see your five fingers. Today was a tough day for me, I traveled all the way from London and I must go to Seattle tonight to meet my daughter who has been unwell for the past few days. I promised her over the phone that I would come home for dinner. Since I missed out the flight, I feel very sad, but if I keep feeling sad I will attract more situations which will bring more worries to life. So by doing this quick and simple exercise, I jump into the happiness state in a few seconds.

Just stare at the fingers for a while and remember the following:

1. Thumb – Start with your thumb. You would have held a trophy on your right hand or a degree certificate when you graduated from college. Without thumb “holding” any object is very tough, just be grateful for your thumb and cherish those wonderful moments in your life, by doing this your mind is triggered with positive vibes and your current situation will vanish in a blink of the eye! Then have a thumbs up for your past achievements and smile at your thumb!
2. Index Finger – Now see your Index finger. Your parents or your well-wishers in your life would have shown you the right path in life or you would have shown the right path/directions to your children. So, I match this index finger with “right path”, so whenever I see my Index finger, I feel I am on the right path
3. Middle Finger – This finger I matched it with “heights”, you would have reached many heights in your life, like scoring high in your grades or ranked higher in your high school etc. Life is meant to achieve high things. So this finger teaches you to always aim high!
4. Ring Finger – This finger is for wearing a ring, so I named this finger as “prosperity finger” whenever I see this finger I imagine myself as a wealthy man and thank God for all the money I have in my life
5. Little Finger – I named this finger as my “darling finger” this finger tells me, I should be humble and polite all the time even after I reach different heights in my life.

“That’s it, my friend, I am a little tired, going to have a nap, please wake me up as I don’t want to miss the flight again” He told me and started sleeping on the seat. I was grateful towards him for letting me know of this since it was a lesson that could get me through the long night and we both boarded the morning flight to Seattle.
Life teaches us in many ways, it could be anyone whom we think as a stranger and may play a vital part in our life. Be open to receiving the teachings and don’t feel dejected when you miss a flight and give a stare at your fingers :

Love,

Rajesh Vairapandian.

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