Visualization : Four common mistakes


Art credit : Komal Gandhi

As a Law of attraction practitioner, most of us aware of what visualization is. For newbies, visualization is a process used to envision the future in your mind and by doing so, you will manifest what you thought of. Visualization is an interesting technique and a powerful one too. However, if you do not follow the basics of visualization your manifestation will take the time to appear or it will not even manifest.

I was introduced to Law of attraction back in 2009 and then on I have been doing visualization as my regular practice for manifestation. My results were remarkable. Once it is becoming your daily routine after some point of time the response time from Universe is incredibly fast.

In this article, I have listed down four common mistakes encountered by the Law of Attraction practitioners in Visualization. If you are able to overcome these four, then the results will be quicker than you imagine.

  1. Visualization Vs Meditation:                                                                                              a) Meditation: Most of the LOA practitioners confuse Visualization with Meditation. In one simple sentence, both are NOT same. Meditation is the method to make your mind calm. Your thoughts will be dissolved and all the wandering thoughts will leave your mind one by one and your mind will be a clean slate soon. Your state of mind will be in Alpha State (7-13 Hz – Meditation State). It is where your Subconscious mind wakes up and waiting for your instruction like a soldier waiting for his king’s go ahead to do the things for him.                               b) Visualization: It is the right time you can start thinking of your dreams and you can visualize that in your mind. You can see everything by your closed eyes and this is where the visualization process kick starts. So one can say, Visualization can be reached through Meditation and from there on the envisioning should start in the mind. So what happens here? Once you start your visualization (consider as a king) your sub-conscious mind (soldier) is getting ready for the action. This is what explained in “The Secret” book as “Your wish is the command”.

If you like to continue only in Meditation follow a. if you want to jump into visualization follow a and b. It is that simple.

2. Detailing: “I have been doing visualization for quite some time but the results are bleak. Why?” This has been the most common question of the LOA practitioners. The answer is very simple, if you do not have details in your visualization you will not even get the manifestation! Let us take an example here. You want to attract a life partner. What are the details you need to add during the visualization?

a) What is the desired height of him/her? – Example: 6 Feet
b) What is the eye color of him/her? – Example: Black
c) Where does he/she want to meet you for the first time? – Example: In Krishna Temple, near your house. (If you just say temple, then it is not the clear detail. Tirupathi is also a temple, but you might be hailing from Mumbai and wanted your life partner to meet you at your nearest temple. So in this case, you should clearly detail it as which temple)
d) What color dress he/she should wear during your first meet? – Example: Blue T-Shirt, Black Jean.


I have listed a few details, you can add even more. Once you add all the details, now you know crystal clear how your life partner looks like and this is what Universe is expecting from you. Now your mental picture of your life partner will be sent to Universe like a courier with all details. Universe opens the courier and smiles at it and says “Dear, Your wish is my command”. Boom, you will attract your life partner soon. So always remember to add details, details, details. 🙂

3. Feeling/emotion: If you are simply “asking” then visualization will not work. There is no doubt on it. You need to have that good feel thinking that you already achieved the desired. All your cells should be having that good feel and your entire body should have that positive vibration when you visualize. If it is missing then it is of no use. So feel like you already received what you wanted and be in the higher happiness state when you do visualization.

4. A dangerous word named as “How”  : Your task is to ask, believe and receive. If you think “how” this will happen then all your efforts will be wasted. Your job is not to think about “how”. This is one of the most common mistakes by the visualization practitioners. They know what they want, they are ready to have it but the moment they ask something to Universe/God they attach a “How” to it and spoils everything. “How” will be taken care by Universe. You are tiny, very tiny object for Universe. For Universe Bill Gates and You are same. For Universe, all the human beings are same. So never ever think about the “how”. If your mind still sticking to the “how” it is like the habit of an Elephant when it sees a muddy pond. Elephant takes the mud and put it on his head. Never doubt the power of universe by your own pre-defined old beliefs. Visualization comes under “New Thought” process. You are a new human being now.

If you understand these four common mistakes and eliminates from the mind, then your visualization works wonder for you.  Manifestation will be done before the deadline you have given to Universe.

I wish you all the very best. Happy Manifestation folks 🙂


Rajesh Vairapandian.



Past Demons: Two practices to come out of Past


I recently visited a hill station and met an old man. He lives in one of the beautiful garden houses with his wife and I was fortunate to visit their house. Their house is covered with a garden which has more than hundred different types of plants. Filled with flowers and they had a lovebirds cage which has more than twenty beautiful little birds. It was like a heaven. No, it was heaven. They offered me tea and within few minutes I understood how happily they are living. His wife is an amazing person who made me laugh for every sentence she spoke of. Her sense of humor was exceptional and I asked that couple how many kids they have. Before I could finish off my question they both answered in one voice ‘We have more than one hundred kids’ and they pointed out their beautiful garden and pets.  Later, I came to know their only son has killed in an accident thirty years ago.  I had no words to express my feelings and I felt sad to know their grievance. But they told me one thing, they are not living in their “Past” and they are living this beautiful life which is nothing but the present. It was an eye opener for me. Being a Law of Attraction practitioner, now I realize how important to leave the past behind us.

We all had past. We all had issues in our past. Also, we had pleasant memories about the past. But how many of us really forgot all those bad things about past and only thinking about the pleasant things? Whenever we feel sad, mostly the reason could be a past thing or relationship or incident which went wrong.  How to overcome past demons and how to be happy in the present? This is the question one would have asked himself at least ten times in his life. For many, at least it is hundred times. For some people, it is a daily question to themselves.

In this article, I have listed down two practices which will help you to overcome the ill-fated past and make you focus on the present and by doing these your future will be designed as per your wish.

  1. Bin-Bin: This practice is for those who had breakups, divorce or any relationship issues in their past and still thinking about that over and over. Buy sticky notes and have it in your handbag or backpack. Whenever you think about someone who really made you unhappy bless them (yes, you read it correctly. bless them) and take one leaf of the sticky notes and write their name on it. Find a bin and throw it. You might think how can I bless them and throw them in the bin. 1. Your blessings will do good things for them and also make you feel ease 2. When you throw their name into the bin, you are letting the bad memories out of your heart which was pricking your heart during every heartbeat. So, it is a win-win for both and we can call it as bin-bin : )

2.Embrace-Fear: Why do we get fear? It is because of our past experience. If you have feared to face an Interview or if you have feared to write an Exam it is because of your past. You would have rejected in an Interview or failed in an exam.  I have failed 3 times in statistics exam during my post-graduation. The Reason was very simple, after my first attempt I grew up fear into my heart. So, whenever I appear for statistics exam, my mind was filled with fear and attracts more fear. In the end, the result was a failure.  So, to overcome the fear of past you can do this practice. Start embracing the fear you have. This might sound crazy but this is how one can overcome the fear. Example: If you fear of an interview, close your eyes and think that everything is going as per your wish. You are walking to the interview room confidently, you are facing the interviewer with much confidence and you are coming out of that office with an offer letter. It is like walking towards the fear and embraces it.  One of my friends, always having fear of cockroach and one day I told him a funny thing, I told him that the cockroach that is coming towards you might be the soldier because you were a cockroach king in your previous birth.  He laughed at me first, then his fear started to reduce and today if he sees a cockroach he will not run away. He embraces the fear and overcomes it.

So if you follow these two practices, you will be able to forget the past and live in the present.

Always remember, no one becomes successful in the past. If you want to achieve what you want in life you should forget the tough past and cherish in the present.  By doing so, Future is yours!

All the best and have a wonderful week ahead 🙂



Rajesh Vairapandian.



Inspired Actions: Four Practices to take Inspired Actions

She wins in every tournament she participates. She wins millions of hearts by her smile. She is an angel for many. She lives a life where everything is beautiful. Her life is blissful. Do you want to know who is this she?  It is you. You can become what you think of if you take one decision in life. That decision is to be happy all the time. So, how do you become happy? You should see/think positive things in everything. Next question here is, how you become positive all the time? The answer is, if you firmly believe in Universe/God, your state of mind will be in positivity all the time. Because now you know being positive is the only way to be happy and being happy is the only way to success in Life.

But, you may ask, I am always happy, I see positive in everything but still the results are not coming to me as expected, or the manifestation takes much time. I do take actions but not all the actions are converted into productive results. So, where am I missing the trick? All these questions would have to wander in your mind whenever your results are getting delayed.

The answer to all these questions is: Inspired Actions. Have you taken inspired actions to achieve what you want or need in your life? If not, take inspired actions right away and manifest whatever you have wished for.

I have listed four practices which can help you to take Inspired action.

 1.Intuition:  Listen to your inner being when you feel you are unable to take any action on your desires. Listen to you. From nowhere, you will be pushed to do something. For example, you want to meet your grandmother who is 400 km’s away. You have been thinking for several weeks, But in your busy schedule, you do not find time to go and meet her. Now listen to your intuition, it will give you a tip or guide you to take the action to meet your granny. You get an urge to tell this to your colleague and he says he is from the place where your grandmother lives and you both make a sudden plan and that Friday evening you travel along with him, he drops you at your grandmother’s doorstep. You know that colleague for several months but haven’t know that he is from that place. It happens. Listen to your intuition.

2.Draw it, Get it: You know what you want to become. You practice visualization. You do meditation. You are in happiness state all the time. But still, you have no idea how Universe will bring the desire closer to you. Do this practice whenever you feel you are in the same place for several days. Take a notebook and have a margin in between a page. In the left side write down your “Present State”

Here I give a sample:

Draw yourself, you need not be an artist. Just draw a cartoon of you. Two eyes, one nose, one mouth, two ears, little hair (oops, sometimes I talk about me you know 😉 ), have a body under the head and two arms and two legs. Now draw a few cloud-like designs around this. Inside the cloud designs, write down your present state(your income status, your current relationship status, your health status)

Now, in the right side of the page after the margin, title it as “Desired State” and draw your cartoon. Now, inside those cloud designs write down your desired income, desired relationship, health and whatever you dreamed of!

Do this practice daily and within few days your sub-conscious mind will let you know what inspired action you need to take to achieve those. I have done this and amazed to see the power behind this simple practice.

 3.Medi-Act:  When you do meditation you are listening to God/Universe/Higher-Self. Whenever you feel confused what to do next, find a calm place and do a quick meditation. Seek an answer from above. You will be given an idea or the answer you were looking for. When you open your eyes you will be energized and you will take inspired action towards your desire.

 4.Love Vs Passion:  Love starts from the heart. Passion ignites from the brain. When Love and Passion meet at one point, your action will begin without a second thought which is inspired. We all listen to our mind most of the time, but if you listen to heart you will see beauty in everything. You will bless your enemy or the one who left you without a reason only through your heart. The heart does not have an EGO attached to it. We should listen to heart and brain in the same proposition. If you do so, your love&passion will become an inspired action and you will achieve your desire in a much faster way.

I hope these practices are helpful to take inspired actions. You have come to this world as a human. Live every single moment of life to its fullest and take inspired actions to achieve all your desires.

Have a great weekend ahead : )


Rajesh Vairapandian.

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Power of Self-Talk : Three practices to master self-talk

It was back in 2005 my friend Ram and I was traveling to Madura. We both were traveling from New Delhi to Madura by bus. Ram has bought new Adidas shoes and he loved those blue and white color design. Even before we could reach Madura, he was repeatedly saying to me Madura temple is a crowded place and if we keep our shoes outside it will be stolen. I could understand how much he liked his new shoes and all the time during our travel his mind was thinking about the safety of his shoes.

Once we reached Madura, we kept our shoes outside and Ram kept his shoes under a staircase where no one can find it easily. Then we went inside, but he kept on saying ‘Someone will take my shoes, it is not safe’ he repeated this for several times until we come out of the temple. He ran to that staircase and found nothing. Yes, his shoes had been stolen by someone, only his shoes out of thousands.

So, what has happened in this case? Ram’s sub-conscious mind started to believe his self-talk and it has ordered a person to take those shoes away by obeying his words.  This is the power of self-talk. This is the power of self. Whatever you feed to your mind it will accept it and respond back with 100% accuracy. In Ram’s case, he has fed a negative thing and the result was negative. So, now you know if you feed positive things to your mind you will reap the positive outcome.

Here I have listed few self-talk practices to manifest your desire, to improve your self-confidence level and self-esteem. Also, if you are afraid of public speaking you can overcome that using these practices.

  1. Mirror Power: Every morning you spend some time in front of the mirror. You do this to enhance your beauty by some external things, for example applying a cream to your face. However, did you ever speak to yourself in front of the mirror? If not, it is time to do it from today. Look at your eyes, those eyebrows, nose, your lips, cheeks and if you have a long foot mirror see your entire self. Speak to your image. Remember, sub-conscious understands images faster than words. Your reflection in the mirror is your own self-image. Talk to your own image and speak out the positive words.

“I am the winner, I deserve a better life. I have all the abundance of this beautiful life. Today is my day, I love myself more than anyone, I am the best, I am the champion of my own life”

You can say these kinds of affirmations for few minutes by seeing your image. Keep doing this for at least a month. Then you will see the positive shift in your life. By doing this you have made your sub-conscious to believe that you are the best. So it will make a bridge between you and Universe/God and transfer your words and get the outcome as per your wish.

2. Shower Power: When you are under a warm water shower, your body get energized and all your cells are simulated by the running water all over your body. Your body and mind will be in receiving state during this time. It is the best time to have a self-conversation with you. We have heard of many “bathroom singers” in our life. Why can’t you speak to yourself by utilizing this time and improve yourself? You can repeat all those positive affirmations and come out of the shower with much self-confidence. In this busy life, you can properly use your shower time to shape up your future.


 3.Travel Power:  This practice can be done during your travel. When you are traveling in a train/bus/car you can have a conversation with yourself silently. When you get out of your house and travel to one place from another your eyes are looking into multiple images. All the motion images are simply going into your mind and come out without having much impact.  If you keep talking to yourself slowly your mind will listen to you and the wandering mind will be focusing only thing only, it is YOU. So, make use of your travel time and speak to the most important person in this world –YOU.

All the leaders, successful people has mastered self-talk. They knew their success before they could achieve it. I end this article with one of the most powerful self-talk from one of the legendary sports person, Mohammad Ali.

I am the greatest, I said that even before I knew I was”

You have come to this planet to live only one life. Live a life filled with abundance. Have a great day ahead: )


Rajesh Vairapandian.

Energy Shifters – Four Simple Methods

In this article, we will see some of the “energy shifters” which I have been using in various instants of Life. I have read these in books or got to know about these from friends. If you keep practicing it and master this, it will have a huge impact in your life and you will be easily shifting your energy from low(negative) to high(Positive).

We all know everything in this universe is energy. You are holding your mobile or tablet and reading this article right now. Your mobile is a form of energy. Every energy has its own frequency level.  If you want to be happy and get rid of all those negative situation, toxic people issues, fear or your own “demon” thoughts. Your body and soul should be vibrating higher than those negative things.

So, how do you make the vibration above those low level? These shifters will help you to instantly shift you from the low to high or in other words, from negative to positive in few minutes. I have listed few here, you can customize these based on your necessity.


  1. Above method: This method helps us whenever our mind is pulling us to focus “only” on the issues. For example, you want to buy some vegetables and walking towards the market. You almost reached the market then realize you have left your wallet at home. You have walked for more than 2 kilometers and your mind becomes tired now to go back and get the wallet. The moment your mind becomes tired, your entire body becomes tired and you feel like you are lost. Now, you should think “Above”. You should speak to your mind like this “I am above this situation, I am above the tiredness and pain. I am going back home and get that wallet and come back briskly than before and get that veggie waiting for me at the market” If you keep telling this few times, your brain receives this positive signal and got up like a horse! Now, you are ABOVE the issue. Now your body is above the pain and tiredness. Now you are the master of this situation and going back home like a king with your heads up.

You can use this method in any situation, especially when you are in fear or in doubt use this method and shift the energy. You will get remarkable results.


  1. Pause method: This method helps you if your anger level is at its height. How one can get angry easily? If you cannot control the external factors/people your mind is unable to “accept” it and your energy becomes anger. It is that simple, if you know the basic universal truth that anger causes you more damage than the others then you will not allow this worst emotion into you. But we all living in a world where we are inter-connected with relationships, people, and other external factors. It is easy to get angry over one another. This method is quite simple. If you get hypertension and about to let your words out, just “pause” for a moment. It will be tough during the initial days, but if you think of this formula it will be very easy. From today onwards, Anger = Hell. Pause = Heaven. Your Peacefulness = (Heaven(Hell)) . It means, whenever you “pause” for few moments, your energy is shifting from hell to heaven. And in few minutes your anger level comes down and your soul will be marching towards peacefulness. So now, hell(Anger) is under the control of heaven(Pause).  All the great people walked on this planet are known for their anger mastering techniques. You might be born as a normal person, it is up to you to become great and leave your legacy or die as a poor soul.  Having anger in your soul will ultimately kill your beautiful soul. So, pause 🙂

3.Scribbling Method: Are you worried too much about any of your desires? Or Are you anxious about any of your dreams? Or your inner being boils for something? Or you are about to outburst like a Volcano on someone? Do this:  take a piece of paper and have a pen/pencil. Start scribbling until your anger/worry/anxiety goes out of your mind. Within few seconds following things will happen.  A) You will feel ease B) Your heartbeat becomes normal C) Your mind will be relaxed.  So what is happening here? By scribbling on a paper, our blocked energy gets out and it flows out of the uncomforting zone. Imagine a stream flows freely without a rock on its way.  After few minutes, take out the paper you scribbled and feel how much negativity (those scribbles) you have let it out of your mind. Say thanks to God/Universe and throw it in the bin. Now your negative energy has been transferred from you to that paper. Your mind is like a clean slate now.

4. LTG Method: Are you unsure what to do next? Do you have multiple unanswered questions popping up in your mind all the time? Are you stuck in something? You need a guide but don’t know where to find the guide? “Letter to God” method is the best. I learned this method recently from a magical friend and this one I would say, one of the best methods to get what you want. Write a letter to God. Few people might think what this crazy thing is! Let them think that way, we are here for new ways of positive and happy life, not for their own craziness :). So, write a letter to God and ask the guidance you need to move forward. A sample letter: “Dear God, I am so happy and grateful that you have given me everything I need. I need your guidance in my statistics exam, which is always a tough thing for me. Always I get low marks in this subject and I need your help to get over it. I thank you from the bottom of my heart and I always believe in you. Please guide me and I will write a thank you letter soon to you. Thank you, my dear God, you are the light of my darkness”. Read this letter for few days, you will get wonderful results in a short span of time. Read it with emotion. Feel it. Once you write and read this letter, your uncertain energy will shift into belief energy. Believe. Your wish is the command for God/Universe.

I hope these methods will help you to shape up your energy into a good one. Have a wonderful morning with lots of happiness and fun. Have a superb day ahead 🙂


Rajesh Vairapandian.